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Holiday giving: Look inside the agency

Most police agencies are involved in one or more charitable programs — especially during the holidays — and cops are some of the most generous people on the planet. In this economy, you might want to take a look inside your agency and see if there is someone who needs some extra help.

• How about that records clerk with four little kids whose husband lost his job?
• Or the dispatcher undergoing expensive cancer treatment that is having a tough time covering the expenses?
• Or one of your shift mates is supporting himself, his own wife and kids and his elderly parents on one salary?

For all these people, holiday gift-giving can look bleak for the whole family. These are not the type of people to ask for help, so be subtle, ask around, and then take up a collection and use the proceeds to buy grocery or variety store gift cards, or just put the cash in a holiday card signed anonymously: “from your family in blue.”

The financial and emotional impact will probably be felt for years to come, for both the givers and the recipients. It really is better to give than to receive, that’s why we wear the badge and gun.

My column is undergoing a bit of an identity crisis. I’ve been writing for the Street Survival “Newsline” and the P1 Newsletter for several years. As a Street Survival seminar instructor, I write about officer safety and survival, but I’m also a supervisor, a mom, a trainer, a cop’s wife, and dare I say, a woman, so I’ve got a lot to say about any number of topics (what woman doesn’t?!), and I’ve always received great feedback from our readers. So when Police One approached me and asked me to author a monthly column dealing with women’s issues, I enthusiastically agreed. “What a great opportunity” I naively thought “to bring issues to light that both women and men in law enforcement could all relate to, perhaps discuss at roll call, and ultimately learn something from each other.” Yeah, just call me Sergeant Pollyanna…I forgot that by calling it a “women’s” column, not only will most of our male readers skip over it, but so will at least half our female readers. What?! Why in the world wouldn’t women read a “women’s” column?! Because, there are a lot of female crimefighters out there like me who have spent a lot of years just trying to blend in, to be “one of the guys” if you will…to be perceived as and conduct ourselves as “warriors,” not “victims.” We don’t want special treatment; we just want to be cops.