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A sergeant’s tip for holiday giving

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As a patrol sergeant, I supervise a group of really great cops who work their tails off for me all year long. So when the holiday gift-giving season rolls around, I like to come up with something nice for each of them as a thank you. In years past I’ve given out gift cards to their favorite coffee shop or fast food place, cool new knives they can use at work or when they hunt, and even, for the only other female on my shift, a beautifully scented holiday candle.

This year, however, I’m going to do things a little differently. When the economy gets bad, charities suffer. So I’m going to chose one of my favorite police charities and make a donation in each of my officer’s names. There are so many to chose from, like the NLEOMF, Concerns of Police Survivors, your local “Shop With a Cop” program, the USO, or even organizations like St. Baldricks, where lots of local cops get their heads shaved to raise money to battle childhood cancer. I’m sure there are many more local and national charities that would love to have law enforcement’s help this year. Just like my guys, you all give your time so generously and you are risking your lives everyday for your communities. This year, however, consider giving just a little more; instead of a gift card, a new knife, or a bottle of wine, consider the gift of a donation.

And please, don’t tell Roger, Bill, The Champ, Roy, Skirp, Isaac, D.J. or either of The Rookies, because I want it be a surprise!

My column is undergoing a bit of an identity crisis. I’ve been writing for the Street Survival “Newsline” and the P1 Newsletter for several years. As a Street Survival seminar instructor, I write about officer safety and survival, but I’m also a supervisor, a mom, a trainer, a cop’s wife, and dare I say, a woman, so I’ve got a lot to say about any number of topics (what woman doesn’t?!), and I’ve always received great feedback from our readers. So when Police One approached me and asked me to author a monthly column dealing with women’s issues, I enthusiastically agreed. “What a great opportunity” I naively thought “to bring issues to light that both women and men in law enforcement could all relate to, perhaps discuss at roll call, and ultimately learn something from each other.” Yeah, just call me Sergeant Pollyanna…I forgot that by calling it a “women’s” column, not only will most of our male readers skip over it, but so will at least half our female readers. What?! Why in the world wouldn’t women read a “women’s” column?! Because, there are a lot of female crimefighters out there like me who have spent a lot of years just trying to blend in, to be “one of the guys” if you will…to be perceived as and conduct ourselves as “warriors,” not “victims.” We don’t want special treatment; we just want to be cops.