If you find yourself in court and needing to convince a jury that you used deadly force or took other serious measures against a suspect because you feared for your life, remember that this is NOT the time to stay tough and keep a stiff upper lip.
You’re not there to prove you’re tough enough to handle life-threatening encounters and walk away unscathed. You’re there to prove that you are human and that you thought you were possibly going to die.
Showing true emotion can help prove your point. So, resist the temptation to prevent yourself from choking up. Think about what it really felt like to be staring death in the face. Think about the impact on your family if you had died. Think about what it felt like to be that vulnerable…and let it out.
Remember, however, that if the only emotion you can summon when you think about those things is extreme anger, keep that in check. Blowing your top can do you serious damage on the stand.